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SUMMARY:Death over Drafts at Duffy's!
DESCRIPTION:Join us from 6-7:30pm at our favorite neighborhood pub for Death Over Drafts! \nWHERE? Duffy’s Irish Pub 1901 C St SE\, Washington\, DC 20003 \nThis is a free and informal gathering for the community that will be held monthly on the FINAL (get it?) Tuesday of the month. Come once or come monthly: no experience or expectations necessary! The event will be co-hosted by a “death doula” and a “death midwife” who love getting people to talk about this sometimes-taboo topic. \nThe founder of the Death Over Drafts movement\, Stefanie Elkins\, describes the goal as this: “Death over Drafts is a casual and fun community event to spark connection and is part of a growing movement to destigmatize important conversations on end-of-life.”  \nWhat to expect: \n\nThe event is free!\nAll are welcome!\nYou can still come if you don’t love beer\, there are other snacks and drinks! ;)\nThis is a super supportive community\, but we are not a support group.\nIn this communal environment\, we remind you to be responsible for your own engagement.\n\nAt Death Over Drafts\, the public can enjoy a fun conversation where death is not avoided. There’s no lecture\, but questions will be answered. You never know who you will sit next to\, very interesting fellow guests will be in our midst. We will also have a game called “Death Deck” on the table\, a Death Over Drafts favorite activity! \nEveryone dies\, and talking about it won’t kill us. \nYour hosts for the evening will be the Death Doula in Residence at Congressional Cemetery\, Laura Lyster-Mensh\, and Death Midwife\, Robin Miniter. \nDon’t ghost us! Let us know to expect you by CLICKING HERE
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-over-drafts-at-duffys/2024-07-30/
LOCATION:DC
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness
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LAST-MODIFIED:20240701T021203Z
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SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments-3/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240606T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240606T193000
DTSTAMP:20240916T130915Z
CREATED:20240201T033844Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240916T130915Z
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SUMMARY:Death Cafe at Congressional Cemetery
DESCRIPTION:We welcome you to join us at one of our monthly Death Cafes at Historic Congressional Cemetery. \nAs an active burial ground\, Historic Congressional Cemetery is well acquainted with death\, but just what is a Death Cafe? \nDeath Cafe is a global movement to encourage discussion about the often-taboo subject of death. These are intimate informal gatherings where we discuss death while eating cake and drinking tea to remind us of comfort and sweetness even in difficult times. There is no agenda other than providing a space for an open-ended conversation. \nPlease join us to explore these topics in the spirit of curiosity and wonder. Please keep in mind these gatherings are not meant to offer or replace grief counseling. In the interest of privacy and being present\, we ask that these conversations remain in the room and there be no recording\, note-taking\, or personal details shared afterward. \nFollow this link for more about Death Cafe history and concept. \nAt Congressional Cemetery\, our Death Cafes are facilitated by a rotating slate of volunteers in the region\, each bringing their own unique energy and way to make space for the conversation. Our Death Doula in Residence\, Laura Lyster-Mensh\, represents the cemetery  for these evenings. \nCongressional Cemetery offers these unique conversations free of charge\, and offers tea and sweets in the tradition of death cafes around the world. We do ask that you consider bringing a food or beverage item to share\, or a suggested $5 donation\, to help cover event costs. \nDue to space limitations and to allow us to offer an intimate conversation\, please reserve a chair for the dates you will be joining us. To be on the waitlist for any unavailable dates\, use the form or please email Laura at deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org \nRESERVE A SEAT AT AN UPCOMING DEATH CAFE HERE \nFacilitators for 2024: \nMarch 7     Sarah La Rocca (Congressional Cemetery) \nApril 4    Laura Lyster-Mensh (Congressional Cemetery) \nMay 2     Robin Miniter \nJune 6     Diane Ullius \nAugust 1     AJ Orlikoff (Congressional Cemetery) \nSeptember 5    Kitty Linton (Congressional Cemetery) \nOctober 3     Lisa Yanez \nNovember 14    Sam Stebbins \nDecember 5     Lisa Munsat
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-cafe-at-congressional-cemetery/2024-06-06/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Chapel\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Cafe
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240602T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240602T160000
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SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-06-02/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240526T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240526T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
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SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-05-26/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240519T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240519T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
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SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-05-19/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240511T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240511T120000
DTSTAMP:20240216T050106Z
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SUMMARY:Silent Book Club of Death
DESCRIPTION:Historic Congressional Cemetery hosts special guest\, Death Project Manager\, for a special pop up Silent Book Club of Death – a book club for introverts – on Saturday\, May 11th! \nLike book clubs\, but want to read your own book? \nWant to reflect on your mortality in the company of polite bookworms? \nLooking for an anti-social social club\, where you can meet people then politely ignore them? \nCome read and mingle with new\, bookish friends at this special edition of Silent Book Club of Death! Bring whatever book you happen to be reading – related to the theme of death / dying / grief / aging / mortality – to read in companionable silence\, then share out about it with your new\, bookish friends. \nEven if you choose not to read a death-themed book and just want to read quietly in a death positive space\, come join us! \nNot sure what to read? We will have books you can browse for inspiration. We hope you will join us and dedicate some time to reading and reflection! \nSchedule: \n10 AM – 10:30 AM: Meet and chat \n10:30 AM – 10:45 AM: Introductions + overview of Silent Book Club of Death \n10:45 AM – 11:30 AM: Silent reading \n11:30 AM – 12PM: Chat about what you’ve read and share quotes\, insights\, or questions that arose for you \nCatherine\, your Death Project Manager\, is the creator of the Mortality Workbook\, a toolkit to collect what your loved ones should know before you go\, so that you can rest in peace. She has previously spoken at Historic Congressional Cemetery virtually during Death Doula Days\, and has hosted Silent Book Club of Death pop ups worldwide. Learn more at deathprojectmanager.com and on Instagram (@deathprojectmanager). \nSee you in the chapel of the Historic Congressional Cemetery on Saturday\, May 11th at 10AM! \nAny questions? Reach out to Laura\, the cemetery’s Death Doula in Residence\, who will be welcoming Catherine in person and co-hosting this gathering. You can reach her at DeathDoula@Congressionalcemetery.org \nThis is a free event but donations to the Association for the Preservation of Historic Congressional Cemetery  are very welcome! \nReserve seats HERE.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/silent-book-club-of-death/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Chapel\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240503T143000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240503T153000
DTSTAMP:20240425T225725Z
CREATED:20240425T225725Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240425T225725Z
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SUMMARY:Big Chair gathering: meet the artists
DESCRIPTION:Join us as we gather to introduce the newest Message of Hope painting on the cemetery’s famous Big Chair. \nThis informal gathering at 2:30pm on May 3 outside the cemetery gates will introduce the painter of this installation and recent artists\, as well as allow us to honor a recent Big Chair artist who died last month. \nAll are welcome. Come meet the artist\, Elizabeth Marik\, and previous artist\, Heather\, who painted the chair with her son\, Aiden\, who died in last month. \n\n\nFrom the sign on the chair: \nThis spring\, for the season following the vernal equinox\, our Big Chair painter is the artist Elizabeth Marik. The spring chair design includes flowers associated with death and mourning such as marigolds\, daisies\, lilies\, and a white rose. \n\n\n“Together\, they remind us of life emerging. The watery seat invokes the Ganges\, and doorways to the afterlife such as the river Styx\,” Marik said. \n\n\nMarik’s design was previously featured in the second Message of Hope installation in December 2023 along with two other painters\, Michele L.\, and Evelyn M. The candles they depicted were in honor of the annual Worldwide Compassionate Friends Candle Lighting Ceremony and included their motto: “We Need Not Walk Alone.” Compassionate Friends supports families who have lost children of any age. \n\n\nThe first Message of Hope was painted by Heather and Aiden in the fall of 2023 and featured a lighthouse in honor of suicide awareness after they lost a close relative to suicide. This month we join in honoring and remembering Aiden\, who recently died of suicide. In his honor\, the chair now features Aiden’s drawing of Godzilla which he drew for a tattoo he wore. The messages of both Messages of Hope on the Big Chair now become entwined as part of the history of this cemetery. \n\n\nFor more information about our Messages of Hope please inquire in the gatehouse or email: DeathDoula@congressionalcemetery.org \n\n\n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/big-chair-gathering/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Big Chair\, 1801 E St SE\, Washington\, DC\, 20002\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Dedication,Memorial
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240502T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240502T193000
DTSTAMP:20240916T130915Z
CREATED:20240201T033844Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240916T130915Z
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SUMMARY:Death Cafe at Congressional Cemetery
DESCRIPTION:We welcome you to join us at one of our monthly Death Cafes at Historic Congressional Cemetery. \nAs an active burial ground\, Historic Congressional Cemetery is well acquainted with death\, but just what is a Death Cafe? \nDeath Cafe is a global movement to encourage discussion about the often-taboo subject of death. These are intimate informal gatherings where we discuss death while eating cake and drinking tea to remind us of comfort and sweetness even in difficult times. There is no agenda other than providing a space for an open-ended conversation. \nPlease join us to explore these topics in the spirit of curiosity and wonder. Please keep in mind these gatherings are not meant to offer or replace grief counseling. In the interest of privacy and being present\, we ask that these conversations remain in the room and there be no recording\, note-taking\, or personal details shared afterward. \nFollow this link for more about Death Cafe history and concept. \nAt Congressional Cemetery\, our Death Cafes are facilitated by a rotating slate of volunteers in the region\, each bringing their own unique energy and way to make space for the conversation. Our Death Doula in Residence\, Laura Lyster-Mensh\, represents the cemetery  for these evenings. \nCongressional Cemetery offers these unique conversations free of charge\, and offers tea and sweets in the tradition of death cafes around the world. We do ask that you consider bringing a food or beverage item to share\, or a suggested $5 donation\, to help cover event costs. \nDue to space limitations and to allow us to offer an intimate conversation\, please reserve a chair for the dates you will be joining us. To be on the waitlist for any unavailable dates\, use the form or please email Laura at deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org \nRESERVE A SEAT AT AN UPCOMING DEATH CAFE HERE \nFacilitators for 2024: \nMarch 7     Sarah La Rocca (Congressional Cemetery) \nApril 4    Laura Lyster-Mensh (Congressional Cemetery) \nMay 2     Robin Miniter \nJune 6     Diane Ullius \nAugust 1     AJ Orlikoff (Congressional Cemetery) \nSeptember 5    Kitty Linton (Congressional Cemetery) \nOctober 3     Lisa Yanez \nNovember 14    Sam Stebbins \nDecember 5     Lisa Munsat
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-cafe-at-congressional-cemetery/2024-05-02/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Chapel\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Cafe
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240428T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240428T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
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SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-04-28/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240414T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240414T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
UID:10001066-1713088800-1713110400@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-04-14/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240407T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240407T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
UID:10001065-1712484000-1712505600@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-04-07/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
ATTACH;FMTTYPE=image/png:https://congressionalcemetery.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/The-Transition-Tea-Room.png
ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240404T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240404T193000
DTSTAMP:20240916T130915Z
CREATED:20240201T033844Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240916T130915Z
UID:10000989-1712253600-1712259000@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Cafe at Congressional Cemetery
DESCRIPTION:We welcome you to join us at one of our monthly Death Cafes at Historic Congressional Cemetery. \nAs an active burial ground\, Historic Congressional Cemetery is well acquainted with death\, but just what is a Death Cafe? \nDeath Cafe is a global movement to encourage discussion about the often-taboo subject of death. These are intimate informal gatherings where we discuss death while eating cake and drinking tea to remind us of comfort and sweetness even in difficult times. There is no agenda other than providing a space for an open-ended conversation. \nPlease join us to explore these topics in the spirit of curiosity and wonder. Please keep in mind these gatherings are not meant to offer or replace grief counseling. In the interest of privacy and being present\, we ask that these conversations remain in the room and there be no recording\, note-taking\, or personal details shared afterward. \nFollow this link for more about Death Cafe history and concept. \nAt Congressional Cemetery\, our Death Cafes are facilitated by a rotating slate of volunteers in the region\, each bringing their own unique energy and way to make space for the conversation. Our Death Doula in Residence\, Laura Lyster-Mensh\, represents the cemetery  for these evenings. \nCongressional Cemetery offers these unique conversations free of charge\, and offers tea and sweets in the tradition of death cafes around the world. We do ask that you consider bringing a food or beverage item to share\, or a suggested $5 donation\, to help cover event costs. \nDue to space limitations and to allow us to offer an intimate conversation\, please reserve a chair for the dates you will be joining us. To be on the waitlist for any unavailable dates\, use the form or please email Laura at deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org \nRESERVE A SEAT AT AN UPCOMING DEATH CAFE HERE \nFacilitators for 2024: \nMarch 7     Sarah La Rocca (Congressional Cemetery) \nApril 4    Laura Lyster-Mensh (Congressional Cemetery) \nMay 2     Robin Miniter \nJune 6     Diane Ullius \nAugust 1     AJ Orlikoff (Congressional Cemetery) \nSeptember 5    Kitty Linton (Congressional Cemetery) \nOctober 3     Lisa Yanez \nNovember 14    Sam Stebbins \nDecember 5     Lisa Munsat
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-cafe-at-congressional-cemetery/2024-04-04/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Chapel\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Cafe
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DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240331T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240331T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
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SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-03-31/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240324T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240324T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
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SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-03-24/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240317T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240317T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
UID:10001062-1710669600-1710691200@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-03-17/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
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ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240310T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240310T160000
DTSTAMP:20240308T191906Z
CREATED:20240308T191906Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240308T191906Z
UID:10001061-1710064800-1710086400@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Transition Tea Room
DESCRIPTION:Visit the new Transition Tea Room during office hours on Sundays from 10am to 4pm\, by appointment. Morning appointments are individual opportunities to meet with the Death Doula in Residence\, and afternoon appointments are shared with other visitors. Work on projects\, research options\, explore ideas\, read\, play deathy card games: join us! \nCLICK HERE for DETAILS and SCHEDULING.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/transition-tea-room-individual-and-shared-appointments/2024-03-10/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Gatehouse\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Doula Days
ATTACH;FMTTYPE=image/png:https://congressionalcemetery.org/wp-content/uploads/2024/09/The-Transition-Tea-Room.png
ORGANIZER;CN="Laura Lyster-Mensh":MAILTO:deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20240307T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20240307T193000
DTSTAMP:20240916T130915Z
CREATED:20240201T033844Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240916T130915Z
UID:10000988-1709834400-1709839800@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Cafe at Congressional Cemetery
DESCRIPTION:We welcome you to join us at one of our monthly Death Cafes at Historic Congressional Cemetery. \nAs an active burial ground\, Historic Congressional Cemetery is well acquainted with death\, but just what is a Death Cafe? \nDeath Cafe is a global movement to encourage discussion about the often-taboo subject of death. These are intimate informal gatherings where we discuss death while eating cake and drinking tea to remind us of comfort and sweetness even in difficult times. There is no agenda other than providing a space for an open-ended conversation. \nPlease join us to explore these topics in the spirit of curiosity and wonder. Please keep in mind these gatherings are not meant to offer or replace grief counseling. In the interest of privacy and being present\, we ask that these conversations remain in the room and there be no recording\, note-taking\, or personal details shared afterward. \nFollow this link for more about Death Cafe history and concept. \nAt Congressional Cemetery\, our Death Cafes are facilitated by a rotating slate of volunteers in the region\, each bringing their own unique energy and way to make space for the conversation. Our Death Doula in Residence\, Laura Lyster-Mensh\, represents the cemetery  for these evenings. \nCongressional Cemetery offers these unique conversations free of charge\, and offers tea and sweets in the tradition of death cafes around the world. We do ask that you consider bringing a food or beverage item to share\, or a suggested $5 donation\, to help cover event costs. \nDue to space limitations and to allow us to offer an intimate conversation\, please reserve a chair for the dates you will be joining us. To be on the waitlist for any unavailable dates\, use the form or please email Laura at deathdoula@congressionalcemetery.org \nRESERVE A SEAT AT AN UPCOMING DEATH CAFE HERE \nFacilitators for 2024: \nMarch 7     Sarah La Rocca (Congressional Cemetery) \nApril 4    Laura Lyster-Mensh (Congressional Cemetery) \nMay 2     Robin Miniter \nJune 6     Diane Ullius \nAugust 1     AJ Orlikoff (Congressional Cemetery) \nSeptember 5    Kitty Linton (Congressional Cemetery) \nOctober 3     Lisa Yanez \nNovember 14    Sam Stebbins \nDecember 5     Lisa Munsat
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-cafe-at-congressional-cemetery/2024-03-07/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Chapel\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Awareness,Death Cafe
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231230T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231230T130000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224250Z
CREATED:20231029T201559Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224250Z
UID:10000972-1703934000-1703941200@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:This is our final Death Doula Day activity for 2023. \nThis end of year session in our end of life topic will be a celebration and a remembrance of an extraordinary project. Come with a dish to share for a Death Doula Day community meal\, from 11am to 1pm. \nCome remember the activities\, the guests\, the conversations we engaged in over the year and reconnect with others who have been with us one time\, many times\, or even haven’t been able to attend but always wanted to! \nRSVP here. \nWhat is Death Doula Days? \nNo one likes to talk about dying\, right? We do! \nBring your curiosity\, your courage\, and a sense of humor as we sit around the table at the gatehouse (almost) every Saturday in 2023 to explore our worries and wonderment about mortality. Join our new death doula in residence for a weekly series of conversations and workshops about the end of life. Guests will include those who sit with the dying\, care for our bodies\, and help those we will leave behind. We will work on projects like organizing our digital lives\, documenting our wishes\, and telling our life stories. We will play games\, do projects\, hear musicians\, meet artists\, and hear from scholars who explore the end of life in their work. Our goal is to explore a ‘death positive’ way to think about our mortality. You never know who you’ll meet around the table\, but each person who enters the room is a gift to the event. Cake and tea provided. Donations to our host\, Historic Congressional Cemetery\, are warmly encouraged. \nBy facing our fear of death we aim to best enjoy every breath. \nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-15-2/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231230T110000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231230T130000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224246Z
CREATED:20231002T151329Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224246Z
UID:10000964-1703934000-1703941200@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:This is our final Death Doula Day activity for 2023. \nThis end of year session in our end of life topic will be a celebration and a remembrance of an extraordinary project. Come with a dish to share for a Death Doula Day community meal\, from 11am to 1pm. \nCome remember the activities\, the guests\, the conversations we engaged in over the year and reconnect with others who have been with us one time\, many times\, or even haven’t been able to attend but always wanted to! \nRSVP here. \nWhat is Death Doula Days? \nNo one likes to talk about dying\, right? We do! \nBring your curiosity\, your courage\, and a sense of humor as we sit around the table at the gatehouse (almost) every Saturday in 2023 to explore our worries and wonderment about mortality. Join our new death doula in residence for a weekly series of conversations and workshops about the end of life. Guests will include those who sit with the dying\, care for our bodies\, and help those we will leave behind. We will work on projects like organizing our digital lives\, documenting our wishes\, and telling our life stories. We will play games\, do projects\, hear musicians\, meet artists\, and hear from scholars who explore the end of life in their work. Our goal is to explore a ‘death positive’ way to think about our mortality. You never know who you’ll meet around the table\, but each person who enters the room is a gift to the event. Cake and tea provided. Donations to our host\, Historic Congressional Cemetery\, are warmly encouraged. \nBy facing our fear of death we aim to best enjoy every breath. \nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-15/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231216T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231216T120000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224246Z
CREATED:20231003T003133Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224246Z
UID:10000966-1702720800-1702728000@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:This Saturday’s topic is: Immortalizing memories through photography (special guest\, Kitty Linton)\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\n\nOur special guest will be our own Kitty Linton\, HCC’s social media contributor and photographer. The exercise she will lead will be from 10:30am to 11:30. You are welcome\, of course\, to arrive or leave any time during Death Doula Day office hours 10am until noon. \nKitty is a professional photographer originally from London\, England and when she’s not taking photos of the cemetery\, she is documenting the living. \nShe has been fascinated by the technology and power of photography since she was quite young and is passionate in her pursuit of creatively capturing people’s most meaningful memories.\nKitty sees the profound impact photography has on the way we remember others\, and the way we perceive our own permanence. \nHave you ever found an old photograph tucked away in a dusty album and felt a rush of memories flooding back? The sight of a familiar face\, the backdrop of a special place\, or a moment with a loved one – these are triggers for our memories\, like keys that unlock the doors to our past. \nYour assignment for this session is to bring one photograph\, printed or digital\, that captures a memory with someone who has died. We will focus on the memory within the photo\, very specifically\, not the before or after or the story of that person. Just that memory within the frame. \nBy extension\, we will be exploring the role of photographs in our relationships with people and how we will live on after death. \nWe will also share a list of resources to dig deeper into this topic. How can we organize and save these memories? Is there a difference between digital and printed? Photos copied from other photos? Manipulated images. And the newer technologies that may change our relationship with photography. \nAnd\, rumor has it\, a photo may be taken on this date\, using an older technology and creating a single original image. With Kitty in the room we are likely to leave the room with a new view of photography and photographs. \n\n\nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \nAll are welcome. In fact\, bring a family member or friend! Do rsvp so we can have enough chairs and snacks prepared by clicking HERE.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-16/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231212T180000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231212T193000
DTSTAMP:20240916T130915Z
CREATED:20231122T211835Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240916T130915Z
UID:10000976-1702404000-1702409400@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Cafe
DESCRIPTION:As an active burial ground\, Historic Congressional Cemetery is well acquainted with death. But just what is a Death Cafe? \nDeath Cafe is a global movement facilitating thoughts and discussion about the often taboo subject of death\, It’s a intimate informal gathering to discuss death while eating cake and drinking tea. There is no agenda other than providing a safe space to have an open ended conversation. \nPlease join us for Historic Congressional Cemetery Death Cafes on December 12 from 6:00 PM- 7:30 PM in our historic chapel. Tickets are free and are available below. \nWe will have a rotating slate of individuals from the local death positive community to moderate the event. Complimentary refreshments will be served but we ask that you consider bringing a food or beverage item to share with the group. A $5 donation\, to help cover event costs\, is also welcome but not required. In addition\, you do not have to use your real name to register\, just a name you will recognize so we can check you in at the door. Should your plans change\, let us know so we can allow others to participate. \nReserve a chair by clicking HERE\nOur facilitator: \nPleasance Shamirah \nhttps://www.instagram.com/pleasanceshamirah/ \nPronouns: she/ her \nGuide & Facilitator \nSchedule  \nLINKS & Goodies \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-cafe-2-5-2/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Chapel\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Cafe,Meeting
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BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231209T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231209T120000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224245Z
CREATED:20230926T011825Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224245Z
UID:10000961-1702116000-1702123200@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:This Saturday’s topic is: Bodies above and below ground (special guest\, Margaret Canilang) \nOur special drop in guest will be Margaret Canilang\, HCC Director of Conservation. As always when we have a special guest for Q&A this is from 10:30am to 11:30am. You are welcome\, of course\, to arrive or leave any time during Death Doula Day office hours 10am until noon. \nFrom her HCC official bio: \nIn 2012\, fresh out of Savannah College of Art and Design Historic Preservation graduate program\, Margaret Canilang started her journey at Congressional Cemetery\, but her love for cemeteries was already well-developed.  She was fascinated with the conservation science in her classes\, particularly the properties and characteristics of stone.  Even more specifically\, slate.  And what better place to observe stone than in a cemetery?  She was so enthralled\, she wrote her Master’s thesis\, “The Cemetery as a Cultural Institution: Reforming Preservation Initiatives in Garden Cemeteries through Management\, Conservation\, Outreach\, and Protection.“  \nWe asked Margaret to join us for a Death Doula Day to help us better understand what we are seeing\, in terms of human remains\, when we walk through the grounds. Where are the bodies? How many are there? Are they all buried in the ground? Do they all have markers? What is a vault? What is a cenotaph? We have so many questions. Margaret has answers! \nAll are welcome. In fact\, bring a family member or friend! Do rsvp so we can have enough chairs and snacks prepared by clicking HERE. \nWHAT ARE DEATH DOULA DAYS? \nDeath Doula Days on Saturdays 10am-noon at Congressional Cemetery. Free event\, no experience necessary\, donations to support Congressional Cemetery’s work warmly welcome. \nStay up to date on the project and get notice of upcoming topics by joining our Death Doula Day mailing list HERE.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-14/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231202T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231202T120000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224240Z
CREATED:20230917T163054Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224240Z
UID:10000955-1701511200-1701518400@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:December 2\, 2023 \nThis Saturday’s topic is “What is Loving End of Life Preparation?” \nOur special drop in guests will be Catherine\, Death Project Manager; Gabby Jimenez\, The Hospice Heart ; and Lisa Pahl of TheDeathDeck. As always when we have special guests for Q&A this is from 10:30am to 11:30am. You are welcome\, of course\, to arrive or leave any time during Death Doula Day office hours 10am until noon. This week you get to meet three people who have collaborated together in the past\, hoping to share their tools\, resources\, and information with others who want to provide end of life care without fear or uncertainty. They care about this issue because they want to help improve the way human beings are cared for when they die and when they grieve. They also believe that planning is an act of love\, and logistics are a form of care work. \nCatherine\, your Death Project Manager\, is the creator of the Mortality Workbook\, a toolkit to collect what your loved ones should know before you go\, so that you can rest in peace. \nGabby\, a hospice nurse and an end-of-life doula\, wants people to remember that their experience is not about us\, and the most compassionate thing we can do is meet them where they are\, not where we want them to be. \nLisa is a hospice social worker and co-creator of The Death Deck and The E•O•L Deck\, tools that encourage conversations about what matters most in our lives and our deaths. \nThey will be joining us remotely\, a first-time thing for Death Doula Days! \nMeet our special guests on Saturday and ask them your questions. Examples of questions you may have may relate to the planning stages such as\, what paperwork to start with now? How to have these conversations with loved ones? \nYou may also have questions about the dying process like\, Can they hear us\, and what is important to say at the bedside? Does it hurt them when they stop eating and drinking? Do the medications given at the end of life hasten death? \nAll are welcome. In fact\, bring a family member or friend! Do rsvp by clicking HERE so we can have enough chairs and snacks prepared. \nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-11/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231118T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231118T120000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224249Z
CREATED:20231007T025321Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224249Z
UID:10000967-1700301600-1700308800@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:This Saturday’s topic is: Military Death \nOur special drop in guest will be A.J. Orlikoff\, Congressional Cemetery’s own Director of Public Engagement\, for a Q&A on military death. As always when we have a special guest for Q&A this is from 10:30am to 11:30am. You are welcome\, of course\, to arrive or leave any time during Death Doula Day office hours 10am until noon. \nThis week you will have the opportunity to ask AJ questions about a topic of special interest to him\, and of course for all of us at a place like Congressional Cemetery. How do we understand death for military service members and veterans? What are the customs and obligations of our country to service members? How do we memorialize and remember? And how do we find the service records of deceased family members who served? \nAnthony “AJ” Orlikoff\, Director of Public Engagement\, is a dedicated and passionate historian\, educator\, and writer. After graduating with a Bachelor’s and Master’s in History from Old Dominion University\, A.J. worked at Hampton Roads Naval Museum as an Educator and at the National Museum of the United States Army as an Education Specialist- Lead before joining the staff at Historic Congressional Cemetery. He is the author of “The Navy’s City: Norfolk’s Military History” in A History Lover’s Guide to Norfolk and is a contributor to Washington History Magazine. He is extremely passionate and enthusiastic about all things history and is always eager to share the amazing stories of the past.  He specializes in American military history\, with a particular focus on the American Civil War and World War II. He enjoys reading\, sports\, cups of black coffee\, and is an avid Disc Golf player. He lives in Washington\, DC with his wife Raven and his cats Reina and Ringo. \nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \nRSVP HERE
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-17/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231118T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231118T120000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224215Z
CREATED:20230521T041654Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224215Z
UID:10000898-1700301600-1700308800@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:No one likes to talk about dying\, right? We do! \nBring your curiosity\, your courage\, and a sense of humor as we sit around the table at the gatehouse (almost) every Saturday in 2023 to explore our worries and wonderment about mortality. Join our new death doula in residence for a weekly series of conversations and workshops about the end of life. Guests will include those who sit with the dying\, care for our bodies\, and help those we will leave behind. We will work on projects like organizing our digital lives\, documenting our wishes\, and telling our life stories. We will play games\, do projects\, hear musicians\, meet artists\, and hear from scholars who explore the end of life in their work. Our goal is to explore a ‘death positive’ way to think about our mortality. You never know who you’ll meet around the table\, but each person who enters the room is a gift to the event. Cake and tea provided. Donations to our host\, Historic Congressional Cemetery\, are warmly encouraged. \nBy facing our fear of death we aim to best enjoy every breath. \nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5/2023-11-18/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231111T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231111T120000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224243Z
CREATED:20230917T163814Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224243Z
UID:10000957-1699696800-1699704000@congressionalcemetery.org
SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:Gardening for the dead (special guest Leigh Pickering) \nThis Saturday’s topic is: Planting for the Dead (special guest Leigh Pickering the new Horticulture and Grounds Manager at Congressional Cemetery) \nOur special drop in guest will be Leigh Pickering\, who is responsible for the living parts of our favorite cemetery grounds: the gardens\, the grass\, the trees\, and of course the bugs and bioorganisms that populate and pollinate the grounds and beyond. As always when we have a special guest for Q&A this is from 10:30am to 11:30am. You are welcome\, of course\, to arrive or leave any time during Death Doula Day office hours 10am until noon. \nThis week we get the opportunity to talk about how cemeteries intersect with the people buried and memorialized in a cemetery. Leigh has expertise in both native plants and in use of botanicals. She has a special interest in uses of plants\, as well. So come on down\, get your cup of tea and a pastry\, and let’s learn from Leigh about this special space and the unique considerations of working around the dead while keeping their memories… fresh! \nAll are welcome. In fact\, bring a family member or friend! Do rsvp by clicking HERE so we can have enough chairs and snacks prepared. \nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-13/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
END:VEVENT
BEGIN:VEVENT
DTSTART;TZID=America/New_York:20231104T100000
DTEND;TZID=America/New_York:20231104T120000
DTSTAMP:20240915T224240Z
CREATED:20230917T163426Z
LAST-MODIFIED:20240915T224240Z
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SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:Who protected memorials at BLM fence? (special guest Nadine Seiler) \nThis Saturday’s topic is: Nadine Seiler (special guest) \nOur special drop in guest will be Nadine Seiler\, the “accidental curator”of the Black Lives Matter Memorial Fence. As always when we have a special guest for Q&A this is from 10:30am to 11:30am. You are welcome\, of course\, to arrive or leave any time during Death Doula Day office hours 10am until noon. \nThis week you get to meet a person who takes death seriously. Specifically\, death of Black people. More specifically\, death of Black people during encounters with police. \nBlack Lives Matter is a phrase whose use tells us more about the user than the meaning\, but at its most basic\, it is that the lives of Black people matter. An idea that shouldn’t be controversial or divisive. \nNadine\, a professional organizer in Maryland\, was one of many who were drawn to the place outside the White House that is now known as Black Lives Matter plaza. When Nadine began spending time there during the George Floyd protests\, she took special interest in the names\, the memorials\, the artwork\, the emotional and often satirical materials left on and around the chain link fence that surrounded the White House grounds and beyond. People came from all over the world to experience that fence\, and often to bring memorials and their grief to be shared there. \nNadine saw the way these items were trampled\, weather-beaten\, and vandalized\, and she saw a job to do. No one asked her\, and she was helped eventually by others\, but she acted to care for the memorials on her inimitable initiative. You will have seen her picture in countless press photos\, with her signature pussy hat and t-shirts and signs. And mascara. You can read many interviews with Nadine\, but you can also see the items from that historic time in person in museum collection\, and digital archives. The Black lives that were named and honored on the BLM Memorial Fence live on because Nadine protected them: with zip ties and tape and often overnight sleeping next to the fence. She withstood weather\, counterprotesters\, and violent threats to honor those lives. \nMeet Nadine on Saturday and ask her your questions about why it mattered\, what the Fence collection means\, and get tips on being an independent advocate in a divided world. What did “black lives matter” mean to Nadine? \nWashington Post: A White House fence’s Black Lives Matter art has been saved for history \nNPR: She guarded the Black Lives Matter memorial. Now\, she’s working to protect its art \nDistrict of Columbia Public Library DIGDC: Black Lives Matter Memorial Fence Photographs Collection \nNBC Washington: Two Activists Unite to Protect BLM Signs at Lafayette Square \nAll are welcome. In fact\, bring a family member or friend! Do rsvp by clicking HERE so we can have enough chairs and snacks prepared. \nWe explore new topics and have drop-in guests every week. Get the upcoming topics and news by signing up for the Death Doula Day mailing list by clicking HERE. \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-12/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
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SUMMARY:Death Cafe
DESCRIPTION:As an active burial ground\, Historic Congressional Cemetery is well acquainted with death. But just what is a Death Cafe? \nDeath Cafe is a global movement facilitating thoughts and discussion about the often taboo subject of death\, It’s a intimate informal gathering to discuss death while eating cake and drinking tea. There is no agenda other than providing a safe space to have an open ended conversation. \nPlease join us for Historic Congressional Cemetery Death Cafes on October 10 from 6:00 PM- 7:30 PM in our historic chapel. Tickets are free and are available for reservation approximately one month prior to the event date on September 12. \nWe will have a rotating slate of individuals from the local death positive community to moderate the event. Complimentary refreshments will be served but we ask that you consider bringing a food or beverage item to share with the group. A $5 donation\, to help cover event costs\, is also welcome but not required. In addition\, you do not have to use your real name to register\, just a name you will recognize so we can check you in at the door. Should your plans change\, let us know so we can allow others to participate. \nReserve a seat HERE (available September 12)\n  \n 
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-cafe-5/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery Chapel\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Cafe,Meeting
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SUMMARY:Death Doula Days
DESCRIPTION:This Saturday’s topic is: Dying Kindness (special guest Cianna Stewart) \nOur special drop in guest will be Cianna Stewart\, the host of the Dying Kindness podcast. As always when we have a special guest for Q&A this is from 10:30am to 11:30am. You are welcome\, of course\, to arrive or leave any time during Death Doula Day office hours 10am until noon. \nOkay\, so this week is special. Your death doula in residence is an ardent fan of the Dying Kindness podcast\, and having Cianna visit our amazing cemetery and meeting our Death Doula Day community is a dream come true. \nWe strongly suggest that you take a bit of time to read the list of topics for Dying Kindness and listen to some episodes. Cianna is on a mission to help us be kind to those we leave behind. She knows from experience why this is so important. Let’s not leave angry mourners: it’s a bad look. \nYou can leave money and jewelry and heirlooms\, but it is probably most important to leave as little chaos and confusion as you exit the world. That’s the kindness. That’s a profound kindness. \nShe’s kind\, Cianna. Kind enough to come visit us in person and share her journey. Come ask questions and learn from this wise\, kind person. \nAll are welcome. In fact\, bring a family member or friend! Do rsvp so we can have enough chairs and snacks prepared. \nThe conference room is\, cosy\, so please do rsvp by clicking HERE. \nWHAT ARE DEATH DOULA DAYS? \nDeath Doula Days on Saturdays 10am-noon at Congressional Cemetery. Free event\, no experience necessary\, donations to support Congressional Cemetery’s work warmly welcome. \nStay up to date on the project and get notice of upcoming topics by joining our Death Doula Day mailing list HERE.
URL:https://congressionalcemetery.org/event/death-doula-days-15-5-10/
LOCATION:Historic Congressional Cemetery\, 1801 E Street\, Southeast\, Washington\, DC\, 20003\, United States
CATEGORIES:Death Doula Days
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